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		<title>Story Weekend: Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 02:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry for missing a couple of Story Weekends, but my web designer and I have been busy re-creating an all new site. It was time, especially with the upcoming September publication of Necessary Lies. Please take some time to wander around the site and do let me know if something isn&#8217;t working the way [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/05/story-weekend-change/">Story Weekend: Change</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://www.dianechamberlain.com" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5914" alt="site image" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/site-image-285x300.jpg" width="285" height="300" /></a>I&#8217;m sorry for missing a couple of Story Weekends, but my web designer and I have been busy re-creating an <a  href="http://www.dianechamberlain.com" target="_blank">all new site</a>. It was time, especially with the upcoming September publication of <em>Necessary Lies</em>. Please take some time to wander around the site and do let me know if something isn&#8217;t working the way it should. So many little bits and pieces to a site this big!</p>
<p>When I click on the site now, I get a little jolt. I&#8217;m so used to looking at the old site with the ancient folded-arms picture of me and the sea oats and red sky in the background. I loved that site, but I was ready for the clean, contemporary look of something new. I&#8217;m embracing the change!</p>
<p>And that brings me to the topic of this Story Weekend. Change. What do you think of when you hear that word? Is it the time your mother told the teenage you that you&#8217;d better change or find another place to live? Is it your divorce after twenty years, when you had to create a whole new life for yourself? Is it a move to a new city? A new career?  Or just that jingly stuff in the bottom of your purse? Whatever Change means to you, we&#8217;d like to hear the story!</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge. Happy writing!</p>
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		<title>Brainstorming Brilliance</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 01:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Omigod, what a great brainstorming session! I finished the draft of the first half of my work in progress today, knowing it was just not right, but keeping my writing friend Mary Kay Andrew&#8217;s words of wisdom in mind (&#8220;You can&#8217;t rewrite what you haven&#8217;t written&#8221;). Then I gave it to my sig other John [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/05/brainstorming-brilliance/">Brainstorming Brilliance</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/brainstorm.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5633" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photo-brainstorm-word-tags-image25771610"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5637" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photo-brainstorm-word-tags-image25771610" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/brainstorm-285x300.jpg" width="285" height="300" /></a>Omigod, what a great brainstorming session! I finished the draft of the first half of my work in progress today, knowing it was just not right, but keeping my writing friend Mary Kay Andrew&#8217;s words of wisdom in mind (&#8220;You can&#8217;t rewrite what you haven&#8217;t written&#8221;). Then I gave it to my sig other John to read and we went out to dinner to discuss the mess I&#8217;d created. We asked for a big booth at the restaurant and John pulled out his pages of notes and I pulled out my blank notepad and we began. I knew I had a really good story in that manuscript, but the structure was wrong. So we played with a dozen other ways of telling the story and finally&#8211;<em>finally</em>&#8211;I got it! Oh yeah, baby. Once I figured out the structure, all the other elements began to slip neatly into place. Now I&#8217;m super psyched to get back to work tomorrow. We&#8217;re at the beach and I&#8217;m so glad I brought my outline board with me because I&#8217;ll be writing about a hundred new index cards to tack on it in the morning. I&#8217;m only three months from deadline (gulp) but I have the feeling this re-engineered story is going to write itself. I&#8217;m counting on it!</p>
<p>So how about you? What have you brainstormed lately?</p>
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		<title>Story Weekend: Your Earliest Memory</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 02:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t really pinpoint my own earliest memory, so I&#8217;m always fascinated when someone tells me theirs. I&#8217;d love to hear yours. If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/story-weekend-your-earliest-memory-2/">Story Weekend: Your Earliest Memory</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/little-girl-first-memory.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5625" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-image-little-girl-window-image25702511"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5628" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-image-little-girl-window-image25702511" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/little-girl-first-memory-300x198.jpg" width="300" height="198" /></a>I can&#8217;t really pinpoint my own earliest memory, so I&#8217;m always fascinated when someone tells me theirs. I&#8217;d love to hear yours.</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge. Happy writing!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Win a Personalized Advanced Reading Copy of Necessary Lies!</title>
		<link>http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/win-a-personalized-advanced-reading-copy-of-necessary-lies/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 19:29:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve seen a lot of Advanced Reading Copies (ARCs), but never one quite this pretty. I love how my publisher, St. Martin&#8217;s Press, incorporated the cover of the final book at the bottom of the ARC cover and devoted so much space to bestselling author Christina Schwarz&#8217;s wonderful quote&#8212;a quote that warmed my heart when I [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/win-a-personalized-advanced-reading-copy-of-necessary-lies/">Win a Personalized Advanced Reading Copy of Necessary Lies!</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Necessary-Lies-ARC-front.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5609" title="Necessary Lies ARC front"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5621" alt="Necessary Lies ARC front" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Necessary-Lies-ARC-front-203x300.jpg" width="203" height="300" /></a>I&#8217;ve seen a lot of Advanced Reading Copies (ARCs), but never one quite this pretty. I love how my publisher, St. Martin&#8217;s Press, incorporated the cover of the final book at the bottom of the ARC cover and devoted so much space to bestselling author Christina Schwarz&#8217;s wonderful quote&#8212;a quote that warmed my heart when I read it. I hope that my readers will feel the same way about <em>Necessary Lies</em> that Christina did.</p>
<p>So what is an ARC? It&#8217;s the uncorrected proof of an upcoming book and it&#8217;s sent to reviewers, librarians and bookstores to generate early reviews and orders. Since the ARC is uncorrected, you&#8217;ll find some typos, maybe some awkward sentences that will later be changed, and in the case of <em>Necessary Lies,</em> some documents in the body of the story that will be printed larger (and therefore more readable!) in the actual book. But the story will be the same.</p>
<p>ARCs are printed in limited numbers, so I only have a few and am hoarding them for some hand selected reviewers. But I have a copy reserved for one of my readers&#8230;maybe you? If you&#8217;ll add a comment to this blog post or under this post on Facebook (just &#8220;hi!&#8221; is fine!) and agree to write an honest review on Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com when reviews are allowed, you&#8217;ll be in the running. I&#8217;ll use a random number generator to select a winner. Although this is the North American version of <em>Necessary Lies</em>, the book will be available in all English speaking countries on September 3rd and I&#8217;ll send you the ARC no matter where you live (and if you live outside the US, you may leave your review in your country&#8217;s online stores). I&#8217;ll select a winner this Friday at noon EST.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>
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		<title>Story Weekend: Spiders</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Apr 2013 01:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was out of town last week and when I returned home, I drove my car out of the garage only to discover it was covered in cobwebs and a million baby spiders! Shudder. We live in the woods and this is the price we pay. If you&#8217;ve &#8220;known&#8221; me long enough, you might remember [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/story-weekend-spiders/">Story Weekend: Spiders</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/spider.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5600" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photos-spider-web-image26401353"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5605" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photos-spider-web-image26401353" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/spider-300x300.jpg" width="300" height="300" /></a>I was out of town last week and when I returned home, I drove my car out of the garage only to discover it was covered in cobwebs and a million baby spiders! Shudder. We live in the woods and this is the price we pay. If you&#8217;ve &#8220;known&#8221; me long enough, you might remember the baby spider infestation in my old car, but this was far worse (although I didn&#8217;t see any inside the car this time, fingers crossed). I drove directly to the car wash&#8211;the one where they scrub and shine the outside and vacuum the inside. I was the only car there, since it&#8217;s pine pollen season and anyone in her right mind knows that if you wash your car, it will be clean for about five minutes before returning to neon yellow&#8211;the color of all vehicles this time of year in North Carolina. Anyhow, my car <em>is</em> now very yellow because I&#8217;m leaving it outside, afraid to put it back in the garage. Our pest guy can&#8217;t come for another week, and anyway, spiders are tough to get rid of. (Don&#8217;t tell me how they&#8217;re good for the environment, please. I&#8217;m happy to let them live in their environment&#8211;even in my house to a certain extent&#8211;but my tolerance stops at my car.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to hear your spider story. We had a very quiet Story Weekend last week&#8211;I never know what topic will spark your imagination and what won&#8217;t. Surely, though, everyone has a spider story!</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge. Happy writing!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Story Weekend: Reunion</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 01:38:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m in New York for a &#8220;mini reunion&#8221; with some folks from my high school class. (I went to school in New Jersey, but we&#8217;re meeting in the city). Reunions can be powerful events as we revisit the past with the wisdom&#8212;one hopes&#8212;of the present. I&#8217;d love to hear your reunion story! If  you’re new [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/story-weekend-reunion/">Story Weekend: Reunion</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/reunion.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5591" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-image-vintage-reunion-image60046"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5595" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-image-vintage-reunion-image60046" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/reunion-300x183.jpg" width="300" height="183" /></a>I&#8217;m in New York for a &#8220;mini reunion&#8221; with some folks from my high school class. (I went to school in New Jersey, but we&#8217;re meeting in the city). Reunions can be powerful events as we revisit the past with the wisdom&#8212;one hopes&#8212;of the present. I&#8217;d love to hear your reunion story!</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge. I&#8217;ll probably have a good reunion story myself by Monday!</p>
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		<title>Can We Have a Little Tolerance, Please?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 15:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p> Wow. On Facebook yesterday, I asked for suggestions for the name of an organization that would support gay and lesbian youth and that would form a good acronym. (The organization is created by a character in my work-in-progress.) I received tons of great responses. . . and a few not-so-nice retorts as well. I don&#8217;t [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/04/can-we-have-a-little-tolerance-please/">Can We Have a Little Tolerance, Please?</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/handshake.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5583" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photography-diversity-handshake-image12754442"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5586" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-photography-diversity-handshake-image12754442" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/handshake-199x300.jpg" width="199" height="300" /></a> Wow. On Facebook yesterday, I asked for suggestions for the name of an organization that would support gay and lesbian youth and that would form a good acronym. (The organization is created by a character in my work-in-progress.) I received tons of great responses. . . and a few not-so-nice retorts as well. I don&#8217;t mind the &#8220;I won&#8217;t read your book if you have gay people in it&#8221; comments; there are books I won&#8217;t read because the subject matter distresses me, so I can appreciate that. But I <em>do</em> mind comments that are ugly in their intolerance. In response to those comments, one of my readers asked &#8220;If you discovered the doctor about to perform life-saving surgery on you was gay, would you refuse the surgery?&#8221; Her question hit close to home for me.</p>
<p>My parents, whom I adored, were&#8212;let&#8217;s see, how to say this nicely?&#8212;bigots. To their credit, they raised my siblings and me not to be. They masked their true feelings so well that when I was asked to the senior prom by an African American boy, and a friend asked me if my parents would let me go with him, I responded &#8220;Of course! They don&#8217;t have a prejudiced bone in their bodies!&#8221; Well, ha. I discovered I was wrong about that, and thus I learned of their hypocrisy. After that experience, they didn&#8217;t hide their feelings as well, and I became aware of their bigotry in many ways, large and small. They were good, caring people, mind you, and I know some of their life experiences made them the way they were, but there&#8217;s no denying their animosity toward people who were different from them.</p>
<p>Then came my mother&#8217;s heart attack and the need for a quadruple bypass. We took her to a specialty hospital where she awaited the life-saving surgery. And then we met the surgeon. You guessed it. I&#8217;m sure if the situation had not been so critical, my parents would have asked for another surgeon. But time was of the essence and the surgery proceeded at the hands of the black man who promised to save my mother&#8217;s life.</p>
<p>We waited for hours upon hours in a tiny  room, some of us praying or trying to read and drinking buckets of coffee. Finally the surgeon came out and told us the surgery had gone very well. He shook my father&#8217;s hand, then left us. With a smile on his face and tears in his eyes, my father said over and over again, &#8220;Did you see his hands? Did you see how amazing and beautiful they were?&#8221; He was awestruck, and I believe, a little enlightened.</p>
<p>Did the experience change my parents? Yes, I think it did, at least to a degree. How could it not? But it shouldn&#8217;t take life-saving surgery by a black/white/Hispanic/Muslim/gay/lesbian/disabled doctor for us to see the value in every human being.</p>
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		<title>Story Weekend: Saying Goodbye</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Mar 2013 02:18:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It may have been the day you left your five-year-old at the kindergarten door. Or it may have been that long embrace before your husband&#8211;or wife&#8211;was deployed overseas. Or may be it was the time you hugged your grandmother goodbye, knowing it would be the last hug you&#8217;d ever give her. What is your Goodbye [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/03/story-weekend-saying-goodbye/">Story Weekend: Saying Goodbye</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/goodbye-dog.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5575" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-photo-hello-goodbye-high-five-dog-image26693145"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5579" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-photo-hello-goodbye-high-five-dog-image26693145" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/goodbye-dog-300x300.jpg" width="300" height="300" /></a>It may have been the day you left your five-year-old at the kindergarten door. Or it may have been that long embrace before your husband&#8211;or wife&#8211;was deployed overseas. Or may be it was the time you hugged your grandmother goodbye, knowing it would be the last hug you&#8217;d ever give her.</p>
<p>What is your Goodbye Story?</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge.</p>
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		<title>Story Weekend: What Brings You Comfort?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2013 14:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you have a story about something or someone who&#8217;s brought you comfort? We&#8217;d love to hear it. Last week&#8217;s Story Weekend topic of &#8220;names&#8221; really took off. I hope you&#8217;ll share your stories on this topic as well. It&#8217;s so much fun to connect with one another this way! If  you’re new to Story [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/03/story-weekend-what-brings-you-comfort/">Story Weekend: What Brings You Comfort?</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/girl-and-dog.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5566" title="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-images-girl-puppy-image1662044"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5569" alt="http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-images-girl-puppy-image1662044" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/girl-and-dog-300x199.jpg" width="300" height="199" /></a>Do you have a story about something or someone who&#8217;s brought you comfort? We&#8217;d love to hear it.</p>
<p>Last week&#8217;s Story Weekend topic of &#8220;names&#8221; really took off. I hope you&#8217;ll share your stories on this topic as well. It&#8217;s so much fun to connect with one another this way!</p>
<p>If  you’re new to Story Weekend, here’s how it works: I pick a theme and you share something from your life that relates to that theme, however you interpret it. Thanks to all of you who’ve been contributing. As always, there are a few “rules”:</p>
<p>▪   The story must be true</p>
<p>▪   Try to keep it under 100 words. Embrace the challenge! That’s about six or seven lines in the comment form. I want others to read your story, and most people tend to skip if it’s too long. I know how tough it is to “write tight” but I hope you’ll accept this as a challenge.</p>
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		<title>Library Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2013 02:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Diane Chamberlain</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>When I first started writing fiction, I&#8217;d take my notepad to my local library, which was then in San Diego. There was no Internet. I&#8217;d never heard of a laptop. It was just my notepad and me. . . and joy. Every true writer knows the thrill of having an idea and a pen and [...]</p><p>The post <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com/2013/03/library-love/">Library Love</a> appeared first on <a href="http://dianechamberlain.com">Diane Chamberlain</a>.</p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/library-work.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5553" title="library work"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-5554" alt="library work" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/library-work-300x225.jpg" width="300" height="225" /></a>When I first started writing fiction, I&#8217;d take my notepad to my local library, which was then in San Diego. There was no Internet. I&#8217;d never heard of a laptop. It was just my notepad and me. . . and <em>joy</em>. Every true writer knows the thrill of having an idea and a pen and paper. The writing life was pretty simple!</p>
<p>Over the years, I got away from writing in the library. As my regular blog readers know, I write nearly every day at the Opium Den, also known as Starbucks. Oh, I visit the library to borrow books, but it&#8217;s been a very long time&#8212;more than a decade&#8212;since I spent hours in a library.</p>
<p>The past few days I&#8217;ve been struggling with part of my untitled work-in-progress (my 2014 book). A third of the story is told in letter form and the timeline was getting all screwed up. I knew I needed to spread out my notecards, but my dining room table is covered with the cards for the other two thirds of the book and the Opium Den doesn&#8217;t lend itself to spreading out.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s when I remembered this amazing resource just a <a  href="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/chair.jpg" class="thickbox no_icon" rel="gallery-5553" title="chair"><img class="size-full wp-image-5562 alignright" alt="chair" src="http://dianechamberlain.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/chair.jpg" width="190" height="190" /></a>few miles from my house.  I had the best time! I found a table I could have all to myself. I discovered the chairs at this newish, big library are super comfortable. You can tilt back in them without tipping over (I spent about ten minutes playing with and admiring the chair). Then I spread out all my cards, moved them around, and in a short time, everything fell into focus.  Magic! I only wish writing all those letters would be as easy as figuring out the order they should be in.</p>
<p>When&#8217;s the last time you visited your library? I can&#8217;t wait to go back!</p>
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